.:. I'm WHO I'm .:.

Dear People,

If you're in a bad mood or sedang ber-emo...


please don't show it to the whole world.. not only that.. don't act as if everyone owes you something.. and that you must put revenge on them.. this is such an immature act..



[in psychological term, it called displacement (diverting feelings toward an unacceptable object to a less-threatening, acceptable one) a type of defense mechanism]



do you know that, even someone in a very good mood, enjoying doing something there.. but with the presence of your badmoodlook ... you eventually spoiled the whole atmosphere...


im not saying that when something bad happens to you, you still need to force yourself to be happy.. just try to put things aside for a moment when you're doing another thing or with other people who is 'innocent'..



and what i think is that, it will be much better that you can actually just bring the matter out and let people to understand your situation, rather than just keeping quiet (and showing your witch/devil look face) or throwing tantrums at others!!


so, if YOU think you have such a problem, pls do try to change, i know its hard cos some people could hardly change their behaviors or whatever..
your friends around you may appreciate it very much :)



i believe there are also double-sided faces people..
today, they can be your best friend, BUT
tomorrow, they can be your best enemy...




*I'm NOT referring this to any of my friends, just based on my observations all these while*